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But I guess, how would he have known? I never thought about it.
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I found this out when he was telling me about a girl in 6th grade who got her period in class, and he couldn’t believe how she just ‘let it all out all over’ (as if she peed in her pants but it was period blood). I’m female, but my male partner had no idea that women can’t ‘hold in’ our periods like we hold in pee. #16Ī good hug when “nothing” is wrong works wonders. Sometimes they just need someone who listens to their story without them saying whats right or wrong. That they are very capable of solving their emotional problems themselves. Don’t pour kerosene on that fire, just let it burn out. They don’t want your advice, they don’t want a calm, rational discussion about what they can do to make a situation better. second relationship I realized when women do this, they just want to rant and have a hug at the end. first relationship, I always wondered why my girlfriend would rant at me about things like horrible coworkers, stress dealing with projects, etc., and then get mad at me when I tried to talk through the problems, break them down, and help come up with workable solutions. At least that’s what the water temperature felt like.
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Image source: Kooky-Experience-923, unsplash Woman’s bodies are amazing, fun, and terrifying in different times and situations. That special pair that only come out once a month and look like someone wiped up acid with them. Image source: Hawthorne_northside, pexels
#MYMIND UNSPLASH FULL#
Whereas every woman I’ve been with seems to have a brain like an 80’s stock exchange… thats on fire… and full of angry murder hornets…. I can be sat on the sofa staring at the wall and my mind is a void… occasionally a though may float past, like a discarded crisp packet in the breeze. Their favorite bra doesn’t get washed much. The statement “just do what you want” no matter the tone, means you f**ked up.
#MYMIND UNSPLASH HOW TO#
People don’t magically know how to meet your needs. You have to teach someone how to be a good lover to you. Image source: RedditorChristopher, pexels They tell you to put the seat down on the toilet because they legit fall in if they don’t notice. Genuinely thought the bra and panties were always a set. That they don’t wear matching underwear all the time. Image source: registeredexpert, Karolina Grabowska I’ve been with girls during periods when I thought I looked like s**t but I still managed, somehow, to be attractive in their eyes just from the way I treated others and the way I made them laugh. I learned that girls find you attractive mostly for what you do and how you do it, rather than how you look. Image source: MorgwynOfRavenscar, Leah Kelley The amount of hair they shed is unreal… Not sure how they still have a full body of hair on their head after a week. That birth control messes with their hormones a lot. Made her cry and we talked it out afterward but yeah after that (and just other things I talked to my female friends about) my eyes were opened to how invalid women seem to feel. At first it seemed hot but after a few times in a row I just told her I wasn’t doing nice things for a reward but because I cared about her. Honestly? How much unnecessary guilt women carry around with them over everything.įirst girlfriend I had (18 at the time) every time I did something nice would either apologize or promise some kind of sexual reward. Image source: King-of-Karthadasht, pexels And they appreciate compliments A LOT on things they may be insecure about. Women don’t get enough pockets on their clothing. Image source: BaldEagleNor, , Chelsi Peter